zero-sharp 6 hours ago

I know that they have male and female accounts in the article, but it's hard to overstate just how bad the experience is from a male's point of view. And this is coming from somebody who gets regular matches & dates (just trying to provide context...).

So yea, it's terrible you get instant sex talk. But a lot of the complaints & negative experiences in the article go both ways.

  • JohnFen 5 hours ago

    > it's terrible you get instant sex talk.

    Is it, though? It seems a useful signal that helps to separate out the people who are looking just to hook up from the people looking to actually date.